On the latest episode of DiCHiPi UNFiLTERED - ON MENTORS AND MALUMES, mentorship took centre stage as our host Barbara Moagi,and guests Azande Mkhungo, and Michelle Lima shared their insights on what makes a great mentor. They shared the key qualities they believe we should look for when looking for someone to guide us on our journey.

Michelle highlighted an important point: when searching for a mentor, it’s crucial to be specific about the type of person you would like as your mentor. Don’t sell yourself short! Even if you’re looking for guidance, that doesn’t mean you have nothing to offer in return. A good mentor-mentee relationship is built on mutual respect, and both parties should gain something from it.

So, what makes a good mentor? Let’s break it down.

1. They support your growth and development

A great mentor is all about helping you grow. They’re someone who actively listens, understands your struggles, and encourages you to keep going. They create a safe, non-judgemental space where you can share your ideas, challenges, and goals without fear of criticism.

2. They have expertise in your area

A good mentor should be experienced and knowledgeable in the field you’re interested in or the career path you’re pursuing. Whether they’ve been where you are or have deep insights into your chosen industry, their guidance should be based on real-world experience.

3. They communicate clearly

A great mentor knows how to communicate. They don’t just talk at you; they engage with you in a way that’s easy to understand. Whether it’s giving feedback, setting goals, or offering advice, they know how to express ideas clearly and help you focus on what matters most.

4. They challenge you

A strong mentor isn’t afraid to push you out of your comfort zone. They’ll encourage you to take on new challenges and help you see opportunities you might not have considered. They won’t just tell you what you want to hear; they’ll give you constructive criticism that may help you grow and evolve.

Finding a good mentor isn’t always easy, but when you come across one, their impact can be life-changing. A mentor who listens, guides, challenges, and supports you can be the key to unlocking your full potential.

Keep these tips in mind, and you’ll be on your way to finding someone who can truly help you level up. Also remember to keep it real with yourself: if it’s not supportive to your growth be open to consider alternatives.